Validate: Struggling Singles In Your Area Wiki
Advertisement

Emhari Abdi is an HR specialist and divorced mother of two.

Biography[]

Promo Card Summary[]

  • Bitches love drama in the workplace until it involves them.
  • Lesbians born after 1994 can't cook, all they do is eat ramen, buy 7 wedding rings, eat hot chip, and cry.

Relationships[]

Arihi Cooper[]

Emhari calls Arihi her emotional support transmasc.

Bigs Smallson[]

Bigs's van breaks down near Emhari's house.

Catherine Pinla[]

Catherine and Emhari's children go to the same school and are obsessed with each other. It is harder for Emhari and Catherine to warm up to each other.

Inaya Saifi[]

Emhari chats up Inaya at the local lesbian bar.

Isabelle Morrigan[]

Isabelle asks Emhari out on a date. Unsure, Emhari agrees to it.

Keaton Nervetti[]

Emhari knows Keaton in passing, not well enough to know much of anything about his family. She is primarily disdainful of him and his hygiene.

Mariella Nervetti[]

Emhari and Mariella have history.

Noor Fahoome-Abdi[]

Emhari and Noor had Jahleel and Jabari together. Around that time, they started arguing about everything.

Yolanda Cerise[]

Emhari has gotten her hair cut by Yolanda.

Trivia[]

  • Both she and Catherine are transfeminine[1] moms who like true crime and horror[2].

Interviews with the Team[]

Nasr[]

  • I remember when I first volunteered and I took a look at the characters and set my eyes on "Emhari Abdi - Half South African, Half Qatari, bigender" and my heart SOARD because for once, LGBT Arabs were being considered. I just KNEW I had to be the one to design him.[3]
  • I want people to know that I specifically designed Emhari so that you can see she hasn't medically transitioned. It doesn't invalidate her identity as a trans person, and that shouldn't be the case in the first place. The reason for that is because many non-Western trans folk don't have the luxury or the privilege to medically transition, let alone socially transition. We have to rely on allies to treat us with respect, and for the most part the bare minimum feels like it has to be earned. By designing an Arab trans person that hasn't medically transitioned, or isn't far into their transition, I'm basically reaching out to all of us who are closeted and saying "I love you, and you're not alone."[3]

References[]

Advertisement